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September 16, 2009

葬儀編

葬儀編です。

 余命1ヶ月の覚悟でしたので、6月上旬には、おおまかな葬儀プランをまとめまており、8月に病状が悪化した際には葬儀社(静岡平安祭典)と事前相談をしていたため、葬儀は特に戸惑うこともなく進行。

本人の希望は、

・密葬、家族葬でよい(火葬だけでもよい)
・戒名不要。
・香典はいらない。

でしたので、葬儀社さんと相談しながら下記プランで葬儀を行うことに決定。

・葬儀会館にて実施(遺体は病院から直送)
・家族葬、通夜葬
・無宗教
・式典形式にはしない
・遺影のかわりに誕生から亡くなるまでの写真をスライドショーで上映(エンドレス)
・香典不要
・祭壇ではなく、棺桶を囲むかたち
・告別式は行わず出棺~火葬のみ
・火葬場にて現地解散

 遺影用の写真を用意していませんでしたから、余命宣告後、アルバムひっくり返して遺影に使えそうな写真を探しました。すると、生まれた頃の写真や若い頃の写真が、わんさか出てきました。そこで遺影のかわりにスライドショーを上映することにしました。7月末に99.9%完成、通夜の前日に死亡日を追記してレンダリング→DVD化。
 ついでに入院中の母の写真に黒田知永子さんの着物の写真を合成して遺影を作成、プリント。親戚中、誰も合成だと気が付かなかったので成功~♪
 最近は、パソコンで何でもできちゃうから便利だなあ。

 葬儀場でモニタとDVDプレイヤーを借りようとしたところ、テレビは移動式のものがあるので可だが、DVDプレイヤーは準備できないとのこと。よって葬儀当日は液晶モニタ+NotePC持込でMovie再生としました。

 通夜葬当日は、14:00~15:30 湯灌の儀

葬儀場の湯灌室にて。
畳の部屋に湯灌用のお風呂が置かれ、遺体が横たわっていました。
逆さ水の儀で始まり、男女二人の湯監師さんに、綺麗に洗ってくださいました。
続いて洗髪、「よろしければ洗ってあげてください」とのことで、私と父で洗髪。

 ここで遺族は一旦退出(休憩)。

 湯灌室に戻ると、すでに着替えが終わり、布団の上に横たわっていました。
化粧をほどこすと、まだ生きているように見えます。

 厳かな儀式。心の整理もできるし、やってよかったと思う。費用は約10万でしたが、それだけの価値はありました。

 18:00より通夜葬スタート。
 式典形式ではないので、親戚が集まって自由に故人を見送るという形です。
遺影(モニター)の左右に生花(これは明るい色の洋花にしてもらいました)。
棺桶のまわりを囲んで故人にお別れをしたり、スライドショーの若い頃の写真を見て思い出話をしてもらったり...。
その後、みんなで寿司&料理を食して21:00頃解散となりました。

 父と私は、そのまま母の遺体とともに葬儀場に宿泊。
 パンフには簡易宿泊施設とありましたが、ウチよりも風呂は広いしきれいだし、快適でした♪

 翌日、9:00から出棺の儀。
 棺桶を、皆で生花で満たして、蓋を閉じ出棺。

 10:00点火。
 11:00骨上げ。)
 挨拶、解散。

 家に到着したのが12:30。NHK朝ドラの再放送に間に合ったです、はい♪

以下メモ
・このような式は静岡では珍しいとのこと(通夜葬、無宗教)。
 事前相談しておいて正解(相談した方が葬儀の担当者になってくれた)。
・式次第がないと、戸惑う人もいるので、誰か一人が案内役(世話役)を兼任したほうがスムースかも。
・葬儀費用は総額56万。葬儀費用の積立金が60万あったので、持ち出し0円。
・無宗教で葬儀をやってみると、いかに世間が仏式にとらわれているかがわかって面白い。

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